Mar 20. AILINGLAPLAP   (Bouj) We didn’t waste much time getting ourselves together the next   morning.  We provided a good show for the   children as we washed our hair and brushed our teeth.  I was daring enough to come out of the tent   just my knee length shorts.  The sarong   was getting tiresome but I whipped it on before we loaded our packs and hustled   to where the dingys were taking off.     Most of the people had already started to board the boats so we flagged   Terry for a ride on his dingy to the Oleanda.    We thought we’d had another close call but the boats continued to linger   for a while.  The YFU was loading some   canoes to take back to Bouj.  I guess the   sailors had decided that if Ailinglaplap was going to take the canoes they   weren’t going to sail them back to Bouj.    You can’t blame them.  
          Mona and Senator Abika did return our sea bands the previous   day and Rob offered them again for the return voyage but the Oleanda took a calm   enough route that no one felt sick.  We   enjoyed another nice lunch when we anchored at Bouj.  The anchor for the Oleanda was actually a   large tugboat owned by Jerry Kramer’s company, PII.  Jerry was a long time resident and successful   business man in the Marshall Islands   .  
          Bouj was the tip of   Aerok   Island and its location afforded it a   constant strong breeze from the lagoon side of the island.  It had the only real dock we’d seen on   Ailinglaplap but I guess that is the privilege of an Irioj.  The very tip of Bouj was the   land of Mike   Kabua ’s family.    On the opposite side of the channel was the land of the Loeak family, the   fellow family of Irioj’s.  Through some   arrangement that no one could ever quite explain, these historically rival   families both had a stake in the leadership of Ailinglaplap, the atoll of   kindgs.  The boat sponsored by Chris   Loeak had apparently been the winner of the Jebro race.  
          We asked Mike’s permission to pitch our tent in his growing   tent city.  He gave us carte blanch to   camp anywhere so we distanced ourselves from the crowd a bit and found a fairly   secluded spot on the lagoon side of the island.    The breeze was strong and one of the young kids watching us pitch our   tent seemed skeptical that our little Clip Flashlight would hold out the   night.  
          The area at the end of Bouj that was Kabua land was normally   not even accessible to the local public.    For these festivities Mike had opened up his family land for everyone to   visit.  We inadvertently committed a faux   pas by joining Richard in a visit to the Kabua grave site.  We followed the protocol Richard had learned   on Likiep Atoll, removing our hats before approaching the graves.  But, Likiep had long been without an Irioj   and protocol on Bouj was different.  Mike   Kabua was discrete in letting us know we had gone where we shouldn’t have by   asking Mary Lou to let us know that the road on the outside of the island,   nearest the graves, and the gravesite were not open to anyone but the Kabua   family.  The local people even got off of   their bikes when passing the gravesite so they were sure that their heads were   not higher than the tombs.  
          In order to make Bouj comfortable for visitors, two sets of   new outhouses had been erected along the lagoon side of the island.  Flush toilets were very rare on the outer   islands.  We saw one porcelain toilet on   Woja but it was a bucket flush toilet.    Aerok village had a concrete toilet that was also bucket flush.  However, for the locals it was not uncommon   to go to the bathroom on the beach, particularly at low tide.  The ocean side was the preferred side but   people also used the lagoon side.  The   ocean, and to a lesser extent, the lagoon were the unfortunate dumping grounds   for trash as well.  The tides and   currents took everything out to the ocean.    The breaks between the islands that surrounded the lagoon allowed for the   water to circulate and keep the lagoon looking clean.  
          The YFU arrived quite a bit later than the Oleanda.  Apparently they had been picking up people   and pigs all the way around the lagoon.    Alan and Coral even saw them slaughter and cook one pig en route.  It appeared that people where bringing their   pigs as offerings for the event.  It   wasn’t pleasant watching the poor animals wobble about with their legs tied   together.  There had been two sad hogs on   our ship from Majuro.  They lay on the   deck of the ship with their feet bound so tight they were bleeding.  The Marshallese, for all of their generosity   towards people, did not share our affection for animals.  
          At dinner in Aerok village I had briefly met a young woman   named Kaitlin, a World Teach teacher living in another village on   Aerok   Island .  She came to Bouj to visit with the SDA   teachers and other people she knew from Majuro.    A recent graduate of Smith she had been in The Marshall Islands for the   past 10 months.  When evening came I sat   with Kaitlin and a group of women while I was waiting for Rob.  The group was given a supply of food which   was distributed amongst everyone.  I   wondered if I should wait for Rob to eat but felt it would be rude to refuse the   meal.  Kaitlin informed me that men and   women and children usually eat separately in Marshallese families and I noticed   that all of the men where lined up towards the kitchen while all of the women   were outside with their own food.  When   Rob returned he quickly recognized what was going on and queued up for his own   dinner.  Later a few of us “white people”   commingled.  
          Kaitlin had been followed to Bouj by two of her family   dogs.  Sadly, not even dogs were   appreciated as pets in the Marshalls   .  Along with the pigs and   chickens, the dogs were another potential food source, even if as a last   resort.  Two people told us of a World   Teach teacher on another island that grew very fond of the family dog but when   some time had passed since the family had eaten any meat they did slaughter the   dog and the teacher unknowingly ate his pet.    Failing to understand that kind of attachment to an animal the   Marshallese family was simply trying to serve the teacher what meat they had   available.   I chose not to eat red meat   and poultry if at all possible but in the meat eating world I can’t really judge   the eating of one animal as better as or worse than another.  That said, I do have a strong affection for   dogs and have to say that I find it harder to accept.   |